Unlucky in love?
Is it just me or does everyone wonder what makes someone unlucky in love?
I am surrounded by the unlucky in love at the moment. Some of the most beautiful people I know are shackled to dickheads (sorry…but you know it’s true).
For me, this involves a busy part time job shoring up friends in doomed relationships. Very boring. I don't know if you watched Desperate last night, but Bree is about to marry a murderer and it reminded me of my own friends...
What do you do when someone you love is planning to marry someone you know is bad news?
I have already proved, time and time again in my life, that I do nothing. Because it turns out I’m a gutless wonder.
I never tell the truth, right up until the day someone says they’re leaving! No...actually, way beyond that, even when they’re tearing their ex to pieces I stay silent, no matter how much of a tool I think the ex is. Gutless? I know.
So for one time and one time only I have decided to tell the truth. And it doesn’t matter who you are, if this sounds like your relationship, then pay attention.
If your partner is mean to you. If they EVER speak to you badly. And I mean EVER, but particularly in public. Then see you later! I mean it, get out now. The truth is, your partner probably doesn’t have any respect for you and you and I both know you deserve better than that. I don't care if he apologises later, mean is mean and he is never going to make you feel happy or good about yourself. Get out now.
If you have to make excuses for your partner’s behaviour. If you go out with friends or workmates or family and you find yourself saying …”Oh, she’s just stressed at work…” or, “She’s tired…” or, “A good friend of hers is just sick…” If you find yourself constantly making excuses of any sort for you partner, then see you later! Start running…
They are the big ones, but there are some basic ones too, like if they’re cruel to animals or they don’t like your friends…
But the biggest and most obvious one of all, is undoubtedly if he’s French. I don’t care how handsome, how unshaven, or how delicious his bedroom eyes and French voice make your tummy feel . Get out now! Run away! This can only end in tears….
Kylie, sweetheart, come home Princess..
I am surrounded by the unlucky in love at the moment. Some of the most beautiful people I know are shackled to dickheads (sorry…but you know it’s true).
For me, this involves a busy part time job shoring up friends in doomed relationships. Very boring. I don't know if you watched Desperate last night, but Bree is about to marry a murderer and it reminded me of my own friends...
What do you do when someone you love is planning to marry someone you know is bad news?
I have already proved, time and time again in my life, that I do nothing. Because it turns out I’m a gutless wonder.
I never tell the truth, right up until the day someone says they’re leaving! No...actually, way beyond that, even when they’re tearing their ex to pieces I stay silent, no matter how much of a tool I think the ex is. Gutless? I know.
So for one time and one time only I have decided to tell the truth. And it doesn’t matter who you are, if this sounds like your relationship, then pay attention.
If your partner is mean to you. If they EVER speak to you badly. And I mean EVER, but particularly in public. Then see you later! I mean it, get out now. The truth is, your partner probably doesn’t have any respect for you and you and I both know you deserve better than that. I don't care if he apologises later, mean is mean and he is never going to make you feel happy or good about yourself. Get out now.
If you have to make excuses for your partner’s behaviour. If you go out with friends or workmates or family and you find yourself saying …”Oh, she’s just stressed at work…” or, “She’s tired…” or, “A good friend of hers is just sick…” If you find yourself constantly making excuses of any sort for you partner, then see you later! Start running…
They are the big ones, but there are some basic ones too, like if they’re cruel to animals or they don’t like your friends…
But the biggest and most obvious one of all, is undoubtedly if he’s French. I don’t care how handsome, how unshaven, or how delicious his bedroom eyes and French voice make your tummy feel . Get out now! Run away! This can only end in tears….
Kylie, sweetheart, come home Princess..
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